In this episode of The Speed of Culture, Matt Britton sits down with Doug Zarkin, author of Moving Your Brand Out Of The Friend Zone. Together, they explore the dynamics of brand-consumer relationships and the importance of adopting a business-focused mindset in marketing.
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[00:01:38] How many times have we sat in a boardroom where ideas are being thrown and it's like,
[00:01:42] oh, we got to do it. That's great. We got to do it. That's great. And then you ask
[00:01:45] yourself, is it something that you must and need to do? Is it something that you should
[00:01:50] or could do or is it something that you want? And when in business you spend too much time
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[00:02:01] To thrive in a rapidly evolving landscape, brands must move at an ever increasing
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[00:02:24] Today we're back with a very special guest, actually return guest, the author of
[00:02:28] the recently published book, Moving Your Brand Out of the Friend Zone, Doug Zarkin.
[00:02:32] Doug, great to see you again. Great to see you, my friend. How you been? I've been
[00:02:35] not too bad. You know, it's interesting. I wrote a book in the past. I'm always
[00:02:38] asked what was the experience like writing a book? And I'm just curious to hear
[00:02:42] from your mouth. How is writing a book? I guess what you expect it and in what
[00:02:46] ways did it throw some curveballs at you? So I wrote the book in 16 weeks.
[00:02:52] I wrote the outline for the book in about 15 minutes. I had the title of the
[00:02:55] book before I even started it. But for somebody who cannot spell and has
[00:03:00] a multiple time assault victim of autocorrect, it was a terrifyingly
[00:03:05] exciting experience to write it. There was moments of clarity and moments
[00:03:11] of what am I doing? I will share with you candidly that the day before
[00:03:16] I had to turn the book in for final, final, I was reading the book
[00:03:22] at the pool Labor Day weekend and I read the first three chapters and
[00:03:25] I thought they were dog shit. And I said to my wife at like two
[00:03:28] o'clock in the afternoon, honey, I got to go home. And she goes,
[00:03:31] what are you doing? I got to just rewrite this. It's not what I want
[00:03:34] to say. And I rewrote three chapters in about five hours.
[00:03:39] And I'm glad I did, because it's kind of like the opening lean in. But
[00:03:43] what a terrifying experience. But at the same time, I'm glad I did it.
[00:03:47] Don't have any plans to do another one, but I'm glad I did it.
[00:03:49] What about the writing experience? Do you think led you to maybe make
[00:03:52] a misstep in how you open the book? Is it because you rushed
[00:03:55] the beginning or is it because you learned more about the concept
[00:03:57] as you wrote the whole book?
[00:03:59] I think I got smarter as I went along. When I wrote the beginning
[00:04:03] chapters, I didn't have the full narrative in mind. I was still
[00:04:07] kind of working on my writing style, trying to figure out, did I
[00:04:10] want to write as I speak? Did I want it to be conversational? How
[00:04:13] formal did I want it to be? I was very self conscious about my
[00:04:19] experience and making it all about what I've done versus what
[00:04:22] I've learned. And that's very different. And so I found the
[00:04:26] beginning of the book to be a little bit too self serving. It
[00:04:29] was a little bit too narcissistic. And it didn't welcome
[00:04:32] the reader in it didn't give them that lean in that you and I
[00:04:36] both know in anything that you do that moment of lean in factor
[00:04:39] to get somebody to want to pay attention is so important. It
[00:04:42] didn't have it. But I had a moment of clarity when I was
[00:04:45] reading it at the pool, I started to see what I wanted to
[00:04:49] do. And I will tell you to write three chapters in four or
[00:04:52] five hours, that's the most I've ever done the least
[00:04:54] amount of time. And I'm really pleased with how it
[00:04:57] turned out. Awesome. And just diving into the book. So just
[00:05:00] the title itself break free from the friend zone. It's
[00:05:03] yeah, we've all kind of been there. I know where it's
[00:05:05] like relationship standpoint, in terms of you know, you have
[00:05:08] feelings for somebody, but they just want to be friends and
[00:05:10] you don't really know and then you get to the point in the
[00:05:12] end. What's the correlation between that? And a brand and
[00:05:16] their customer and what made you kind of create that
[00:05:18] analogy as a thesis for your book?
[00:05:21] So I you know, as handsome as you are, my friend, you
[00:05:24] know, we have all experienced that moment of where our
[00:05:27] feelings aren't matched by the person on the other end of
[00:05:30] the table. And for me, that analogy really materializes as
[00:05:34] when you look at sales plan, and you find yourself, you
[00:05:38] know, missing revenue targets. And part of the reason you
[00:05:40] miss revenue targets is because when you look at your
[00:05:44] appeal to people that aren't in a relationship with you,
[00:05:47] you overestimate it, and you greatly overestimate your
[00:05:50] appeal with your existing customers to come back. And
[00:05:53] so the analogy of sort of feeling like you're in a
[00:05:56] deeper state of relationship commitment with somebody than
[00:05:58] you are, the analog of being in the friend zone, to me
[00:06:02] just popped. And it was a way of really simplifying the
[00:06:05] complexity of that consumer brand relationship that is so
[00:06:09] hard to figure out. Because you and I both know, and I
[00:06:13] think your listeners know that marketing at its core is
[00:06:17] about motivating the consumer to do what you want them to
[00:06:20] do or what you're asking them to do when you want
[00:06:22] them to do it. Books, classes, seminars, bottom line
[00:06:26] is marketing has got to get somebody to do what you
[00:06:28] want them to do when you want them to do it. To do that,
[00:06:31] you have to have such a blend of arrogance and humility,
[00:06:35] confidence, and insecurity. And that's no different than
[00:06:38] when you go head first into a relationship in your
[00:06:40] personal life. Right. It's a fascinating correlation. And
[00:06:43] you also talk about the importance of adopting a
[00:06:46] business mindset. And I've seen that, you know, I
[00:06:49] spent 15 years in the agency world where you see so
[00:06:52] many concepts that get presented, and they're like
[00:06:54] whiz bang ideas, but there's never any thought given to
[00:06:57] how is it going to impact the bottom line. And I think
[00:06:59] a lot of advertising has been disconnected from that.
[00:07:03] You work for some of the biggest brands in the world
[00:07:05] leading their marketing. Is that the impetus behind
[00:07:08] focusing on that business mindset when it comes to
[00:07:11] brand building? You know, FOMO is not a marketing
[00:07:14] strategy. And I talk about that in the book and you
[00:07:16] know, how many times have we sat in a boardroom
[00:07:17] where ideas are being thrown and it's like, oh,
[00:07:19] got to do it. That's great. We got to do it.
[00:07:21] That's great. And then you ask yourself, is it
[00:07:23] something that you must and need to do? Is it
[00:07:26] something that you should or could do? Or is it
[00:07:28] something that you want? And when in business you
[00:07:31] spend too much time on the wants and not enough
[00:07:33] focus on the musts and the needs, that's when your
[00:07:35] business goes sideways. And for me, that mindset of
[00:07:39] building that marketing layer cake and really being
[00:07:42] disciplined is at the core of driving marketing
[00:07:44] effectiveness. But for somebody who's young in their
[00:07:47] career, sitting in these meetings trying to make
[00:07:49] sense out of a brainstormed idea of how much time
[00:07:52] and energy to action against it, hopefully, and I
[00:07:55] call it a guide because I don't believe there's a
[00:07:57] right way or a wrong way. I believe there's just a
[00:07:59] way and it's a journey. I hope this helps them.
[00:08:03] Yeah. And you talk about when you talk about the
[00:08:04] layer cake, you also kind of go through like these
[00:08:07] high performance habits that are potential for
[00:08:10] brand growth. Can you elaborate on what some of
[00:08:12] those are and which ones maybe are the most
[00:08:13] underutilized in your experience? So I think to
[00:08:17] me any success I've had in my career, and I
[00:08:20] mean this sincerely, has been because I have
[00:08:22] surrounded myself with great people. Building a
[00:08:25] high performing team is a skill and it's a skill
[00:08:28] that you gain proficiency in over time. But for
[00:08:31] me there's sort of three core concepts in what I
[00:08:34] look for when I build a high performing team.
[00:08:36] First, I hire for passion. You can teach
[00:08:39] somebody a skill, you can't teach them the will.
[00:08:41] And the challenge is that if you have
[00:08:44] somebody who has a lot of passion but doesn't
[00:08:47] have a lot of skill, you have to work that
[00:08:49] much harder to try to get that greater balance.
[00:08:51] It doesn't need skill of what you're selling,
[00:08:53] right Doug? Because like if you're a toothpaste
[00:08:55] brand, people aren't necessarily passionate about
[00:08:57] toothpaste but passionate about brand building and
[00:08:59] connecting with consumers and other parts about that.
[00:09:02] Well it bugs me that there are certain career
[00:09:05] jobs that I let's say would be dream jobs,
[00:09:07] but because I haven't worked necessarily in the
[00:09:08] vertical your resume doesn't appear to the top.
[00:09:11] But if everybody who sells soft drinks worked
[00:09:14] for a soft drink company you would never get
[00:09:15] innovation. And it takes a leader to recognize
[00:09:19] that there are translatable skills from other
[00:09:21] industries that you can bring in to help around
[00:09:23] you out. So it starts with passion. The second
[00:09:25] thing is requiring purpose. I need people around
[00:09:28] me that go about their day with intent. We never
[00:09:30] have the size of the teams that we need.
[00:09:33] Everything is always, I've got 20 minutes worth
[00:09:35] of work that I need to do in 10 minutes. You
[00:09:38] need people who are very purposeful in how
[00:09:40] they go about their lives both outside and
[00:09:43] inside the office. And then it's about celebrating
[00:09:45] progress. Perfection is not attainable in marketing.
[00:09:49] It just isn't. There is no such thing as
[00:09:51] the perfect ad. You can get really close, but
[00:09:54] there's never such thing as perfection. So as
[00:09:57] a leader if you're only focused on 100% results
[00:10:00] you're going to miss the fact that if your
[00:10:02] sales target was plus five but you hit a
[00:10:04] plus two you still are a plus two. Celebrate
[00:10:08] that progress with the team then dig deep
[00:10:11] to figure out all right what did we need
[00:10:13] to do? Where didn't we perform? But if you
[00:10:16] don't take the moment to celebrate you're
[00:10:17] all about negativity. You're all about what
[00:10:19] you didn't do versus what you accomplished.
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[00:12:07] So I think I saw you on TV talking
[00:12:09] about Super Bowl spots.
[00:12:11] I know you're a football fan just
[00:12:12] looking at the Lawrence Tarah
[00:12:14] picture behind you.
[00:12:15] Because you know it's interesting when
[00:12:16] you talk about brand building we often
[00:12:18] create an equivalent to TV advertising
[00:12:21] and the plate that we really see TV
[00:12:23] spots is during the Super Bowl.
[00:12:24] What was your take on the Super Bowl
[00:12:26] spots this year in 2024
[00:12:28] and how does that kind of weigh
[00:12:30] against I guess your overall thesis
[00:12:31] in the book? There were more misses
[00:12:34] than hits.
[00:12:35] I mean there were some brands I
[00:12:37] just I can't understand how this
[00:12:38] creative actually made it out of
[00:12:40] concept.
[00:12:41] There was one brand in particular
[00:12:42] that ran multiple spots during the
[00:12:44] Super Bowl.
[00:12:45] Probably spent 35 to 40 million
[00:12:47] dollars.
[00:12:48] It was some of the worst creative I've
[00:12:50] ever seen.
[00:12:51] And what made it bad? I would say
[00:12:53] executionally
[00:12:54] it was very sophomoric. You couldn't
[00:12:57] really dissect the strategy or what
[00:12:58] it did.
[00:12:59] It happened to be for a service and
[00:13:01] it didn't tell you anything about
[00:13:02] this service.
[00:13:04] It used a reverency
[00:13:06] in its illustrative style not to
[00:13:09] give away who I'm talking about,
[00:13:10] but almost to the point of agnostic
[00:13:12] of a narrative.
[00:13:13] And you know to create that critical
[00:13:16] thing which is consumers make
[00:13:18] emotional decisions before they make
[00:13:19] rational choices,
[00:13:21] you still have to give them emotional
[00:13:22] decision about what.
[00:13:23] And for some of these I walked away
[00:13:25] saying what the hell was that?
[00:13:27] It didn't make me want to learn
[00:13:28] more. It actually made me angry
[00:13:30] that marketers never have enough
[00:13:32] money to do what we want them to do.
[00:13:33] How does somebody get this much money
[00:13:35] approved
[00:13:36] with this story? I just didn't get it.
[00:13:38] And do you think it's really a
[00:13:39] notion of
[00:13:40] I guess like some type of Stockholm
[00:13:42] syndrome that large brands have where
[00:13:44] they kind of
[00:13:45] create an echo chamber of feedback on
[00:13:47] something that's completely
[00:13:48] disconnected from the real world and
[00:13:50] what their consumer is looking for?
[00:13:51] Like is that possibly how it gets out?
[00:13:53] I mean look in society today there is
[00:13:55] only one moment where you have
[00:13:57] appointment viewing for commercials
[00:13:59] and that's the Super Bowl.
[00:14:00] So much so that one of the big
[00:14:02] evolutions we saw this year was
[00:14:04] a lot more money and time spent on
[00:14:06] trailers
[00:14:07] for your Super Bowl ads than the
[00:14:09] ads themselves.
[00:14:10] It almost created a movie-like
[00:14:11] atmosphere where you went to the
[00:14:13] Super Bowl waiting for the debut of
[00:14:14] the spot because you had all the
[00:14:16] great teasers and some spots had
[00:14:17] better teasers
[00:14:18] than they did the spots themselves. I
[00:14:21] think
[00:14:22] you can get lost in the allure of
[00:14:25] I'm on the Super Bowl and it's a
[00:14:27] badge of honor
[00:14:28] not realizing that if you are
[00:14:30] mediocre you lose.
[00:14:31] If you're bad you really lose. That
[00:14:34] winning formula
[00:14:35] is so so small a window
[00:14:38] that your chances of being successful
[00:14:41] agnostic of testing and perfecting I
[00:14:44] feel like is so slim.
[00:14:45] Yeah absolutely. So what are some
[00:14:47] success stories
[00:14:49] more broadly speaking that you've
[00:14:51] seen brands execute
[00:14:52] where they've been able to
[00:14:53] successfully get out of the friend
[00:14:55] zone
[00:14:56] you know create that real winning
[00:14:57] relationship with consumers that has
[00:15:00] long-term commercial viability.
[00:15:01] I'm going to give you two examples
[00:15:02] that I mentioned in the book and
[00:15:04] it's because I think
[00:15:05] they practice both the arrogance and
[00:15:07] the humility.
[00:15:08] The first one is Delta. I am a Delta
[00:15:10] loyalist.
[00:15:11] I will go out of my way to fly the
[00:15:13] airline
[00:15:14] hashtag not a sponsored ad because they
[00:15:16] make me feel valuable
[00:15:18] and during the pandemic when they
[00:15:21] could have
[00:15:21] really blanked out everybody's status
[00:15:25] what did they do? They grandfathered your
[00:15:27] status. They made it actually
[00:15:28] easy for you to remember that as
[00:15:30] your life was getting back on track
[00:15:32] that they were a valuable partner.
[00:15:34] They go out of their way to
[00:15:36] accommodate and maybe that's because
[00:15:38] of the amount I fly but I feel like
[00:15:40] when I travel with them
[00:15:42] I always have somebody that's taking
[00:15:43] care of me okay
[00:15:44] and even though they've gotten a lot
[00:15:46] of negative press for some of the
[00:15:48] way they've done
[00:15:49] readjusting their loyalty programs I
[00:15:51] actually think as far as an airline
[00:15:53] goals
[00:15:53] they actually really do think human.
[00:15:55] They actually
[00:15:56] treat me as if I was their only
[00:15:59] flyer
[00:16:00] and some of the accommodations and
[00:16:02] some of the flexibilities and some
[00:16:04] of the you know we want to get you
[00:16:05] home
[00:16:06] to see your kids so let me get you on
[00:16:07] this flight. Just those small moments of
[00:16:09] care and connection not to mention the
[00:16:11] thank you note that comes on your chair
[00:16:13] when you show up as a frequent flyer
[00:16:15] those things mean a lot. Another one
[00:16:17] that I think has done a really good
[00:16:18] job
[00:16:19] of kind of moving itself out of the
[00:16:21] friend zone
[00:16:23] similar in vein is Marriott. When
[00:16:25] Marriott expanded and created Bonvoy
[00:16:27] and brought in
[00:16:28] other hotels like W and Weston
[00:16:31] there was a real fear that the
[00:16:34] volume was going to dilute the value
[00:16:37] of your patronage and again I think
[00:16:39] they do a really good job
[00:16:41] in small little touches early check-in
[00:16:44] late check out a couple free bottles
[00:16:45] of water
[00:16:46] small things that don't necessarily
[00:16:48] create material value
[00:16:50] but they create material love. Why
[00:16:53] those brands come to mind is because
[00:16:54] they're in a service culture mindset
[00:16:56] yeah experience too right? Experience. My
[00:16:59] Pythagorean theorem in the book is
[00:17:01] the brand value equation
[00:17:02] brand value which is whether you make
[00:17:04] 50,000 or 5 million everybody wants it
[00:17:07] equals experience divided by price. If
[00:17:09] you deliver
[00:17:10] an amazing experience you can charge a
[00:17:12] premium price and still have a
[00:17:13] positive brand value equation
[00:17:15] they have realized those brands that
[00:17:17] they live in an experience economy
[00:17:20] I think a brand like Starbucks is a
[00:17:23] brand that
[00:17:23] forgot the notion of the experience
[00:17:26] economy
[00:17:27] and really lost the cache
[00:17:30] of I go to Starbucks and I feel
[00:17:32] really good about being there not
[00:17:33] necessarily just because I'm drinking a
[00:17:34] good cup of coffee
[00:17:36] but there's that neighborhood coffee
[00:17:37] feel vibe I feel like when I carry
[00:17:39] the cup
[00:17:40] I'm showing a proud badge of honor
[00:17:42] Starbucks we all know is called
[00:17:43] five bucks
[00:17:44] and Duncan sees the opportunity to sort
[00:17:47] of be the anti-Starbucks and be the
[00:17:49] everyman's coffee
[00:17:50] and I mean look go on talk about
[00:17:52] Super Bowl success what they did was
[00:17:54] just a stroke of genius
[00:17:55] absolute genius. Why do you say that
[00:17:57] and what was the insight behind
[00:17:59] what they did? They took a highly
[00:18:02] produced couple in Ben and Jen
[00:18:04] and gave you a peek under the hood of
[00:18:07] do you think this really happens
[00:18:09] their use of cameos I mean
[00:18:11] the Matt Damon cameo when he utters
[00:18:13] the bastardized line from Good Will
[00:18:15] Hunting you know how about them
[00:18:16] donuts
[00:18:17] then you look over and you got Tom
[00:18:19] Brady then you listen to Ben who
[00:18:21] dials up the Boston accent
[00:18:23] just the authenticity Duncan really grew
[00:18:26] out of that New England culture
[00:18:28] and they've owned it they've not tried
[00:18:30] to be a foofy shishi brand
[00:18:32] they're a blue collar brand they have a
[00:18:34] great sense of humor
[00:18:35] and irreverence about themselves and I
[00:18:37] think consumers
[00:18:38] feel good that when they carry a
[00:18:41] Duncan cup of coffee
[00:18:43] that bad badge says something about who
[00:18:45] they are
[00:18:46] that they're smart enough not to
[00:18:47] spend five bucks on a you know
[00:18:49] double skim vanilla skim latte and
[00:18:52] I'm just getting you know a good
[00:18:53] cup of coffee from Duncan and getting
[00:18:54] a bagel or getting a munchkin and
[00:18:56] feeling great about it
[00:18:57] I love that spot too when you jump
[00:18:58] experience or marry out in Delta
[00:19:00] totally makes sense
[00:19:01] but what does experience look like for
[00:19:03] a brand that sells
[00:19:04] shampoo or bottle water or something
[00:19:07] that was more low involvement category
[00:19:09] how can they look at that experience
[00:19:11] and brand equation that you laid
[00:19:12] out
[00:19:13] when you don't control your point of
[00:19:14] distribution the experience that you
[00:19:16] cultivate
[00:19:17] has to be in the way in which you
[00:19:20] educate a consumer before
[00:19:22] or you romance a consumer after
[00:19:24] content is a huge part of it
[00:19:26] content is a big one advice and counsel
[00:19:29] I would say honestly your customer
[00:19:31] service
[00:19:32] I had the privilege of spending a month
[00:19:33] in Japan learning the Japanese
[00:19:35] philosophy of customer service
[00:19:37] and interesting in Japan they look at
[00:19:40] customer service as an opportunity to
[00:19:41] strengthen the relationship not triage
[00:19:43] a problem
[00:19:44] in the states we look at it as an
[00:19:46] opportunity to triage
[00:19:48] if something breaks if I have a
[00:19:50] problem and I call the customer
[00:19:52] service line number one do I get
[00:19:53] somebody live number two
[00:19:55] do they speak the same language number
[00:19:57] three
[00:19:58] do they stop reading from a script and
[00:19:59] listen to me
[00:20:01] and one of the stories I tell in the
[00:20:03] book is something about a ceiling fan
[00:20:05] that I bought from restoration
[00:20:06] hardware
[00:20:07] that was two years old that fell
[00:20:09] because the mount broke
[00:20:11] and I was ready to buy a new one
[00:20:12] and I had called and said
[00:20:14] my ceiling fan broke can you tell me
[00:20:16] which one that I bought
[00:20:18] I need to buy a new one and the
[00:20:19] customer services person on the other
[00:20:21] end was like oh my god are you
[00:20:22] okay I said yeah it was in my
[00:20:23] master bedroom my wife and I weren't
[00:20:24] there
[00:20:25] she's like you bought this two years ago
[00:20:27] I said yeah I said
[00:20:28] do you still sell it she said yes I
[00:20:30] said can I buy it
[00:20:32] and she goes no what do you mean no
[00:20:34] she goes it shouldn't fall off the
[00:20:35] mount I'm sending you a new one
[00:20:37] didn't ask for a picture didn't ask
[00:20:39] for anything back
[00:20:41] just didn't want me to feel like I
[00:20:44] spent a lot of money on something
[00:20:46] and the quality wasn't there and I
[00:20:47] will tell you
[00:20:48] I will forever go back to restoration
[00:20:50] hardware
[00:20:51] because of the way they treated me
[00:20:53] right and they're premium brands when
[00:20:55] you do your equation
[00:20:56] in order for it to play out given the
[00:20:58] expectation you have for what you paid
[00:21:00] the experience needs to be that much
[00:21:01] better
[00:21:02] yeah I had another story where I you
[00:21:03] know my son is basically eats like
[00:21:05] five things and one of the things he
[00:21:06] eats is a particular peanut butter
[00:21:08] brand
[00:21:08] and we opened the jar of peanut
[00:21:10] butter and we found a piece of
[00:21:12] plastic
[00:21:13] in the peanut butter it clearly was
[00:21:14] from one of the like nozzles or
[00:21:16] something it sprayed off and
[00:21:18] so it took me about 20 minutes to
[00:21:19] get the customer service number for
[00:21:20] that brand I finally got the number
[00:21:22] got somebody on the phone
[00:21:24] they said oh my god this is terrible
[00:21:26] do you still have the container I said
[00:21:28] yes
[00:21:29] they said would you mind FedExing it
[00:21:30] back to us said no we'll send you a
[00:21:31] label
[00:21:32] great I send a label three months go
[00:21:34] by I don't hear anything
[00:21:35] so I call back and I said listen what
[00:21:38] happened
[00:21:39] and they're like no one's ever
[00:21:40] gotten back to you I'm like no and
[00:21:41] they're like well we're going to
[00:21:42] send you a bunch of coupons for
[00:21:43] free
[00:21:44] insert brand named peanut butter and
[00:21:46] I was like that's so lame
[00:21:48] my son could have choked I didn't want
[00:21:49] to make a big deal about I just
[00:21:50] wanted them to know
[00:21:52] but they didn't care you know if my
[00:21:53] son wasn't such a picky eater I
[00:21:55] wouldn't buy the brand of peanut
[00:21:56] butter anymore
[00:21:56] but think about all the times that
[00:21:59] we've had bad experiences at a
[00:22:00] restaurant
[00:22:01] or have bought something that's broken
[00:22:03] or not lived up to our
[00:22:04] expectations
[00:22:05] does the customer service experience
[00:22:08] leave you feeling valued or
[00:22:10] valueless
[00:22:11] yeah I think it's so interesting and
[00:22:13] I love the whole take on
[00:22:14] if there's a problem that something
[00:22:16] breaks in a relationship
[00:22:18] or in a customer business
[00:22:20] relationship a lot of people look at
[00:22:21] it as okay we'll just put a bandaid on
[00:22:23] this thing when the reality is
[00:22:25] this is a chance to end up ahead of
[00:22:27] where you were before
[00:22:28] because if you over deliver to a
[00:22:30] problem then the customer usually
[00:22:32] forgets about the problem they're
[00:22:33] just focused on how you provide the
[00:22:34] solution
[00:22:35] and it straightens the brand to an
[00:22:36] entire new level and that has a
[00:22:38] a creative effect over time
[00:22:40] yeah it's a small moment of care and
[00:22:41] connection that could lead to big
[00:22:43] wins
[00:22:43] yeah absolutely so looking for you
[00:22:46] know in 2024 everyone's talking about AI
[00:22:48] and your ability to theoretically
[00:22:50] customize at scale
[00:22:52] obviously AI also presents a risk of
[00:22:55] chat bots where there's no human in the
[00:22:57] loop and companies
[00:22:58] in their quest for efficiency being
[00:23:01] less personal and not even being a
[00:23:02] friend but being sort of like
[00:23:04] I guess a relationship between data
[00:23:06] and a human because they're relying
[00:23:07] so much
[00:23:08] what are your I guess hopes and fears
[00:23:10] in terms of how brands
[00:23:11] can leverage AI in the context of
[00:23:13] the philosophies that you
[00:23:15] laid out in the book
[00:23:16] so I think marketers have to embrace
[00:23:18] AI
[00:23:19] okay I think to ignore it is silly
[00:23:22] I think for a marketer to embrace AI
[00:23:24] you have to recognize that AI is not
[00:23:26] going to do your job
[00:23:28] for you what it does is it allows you
[00:23:31] to iterate
[00:23:32] and see things from multiple angles if
[00:23:34] you are skilled at AI
[00:23:36] you can take a piece of content put in
[00:23:38] a couple queries
[00:23:39] and get five or six different versions
[00:23:41] of said content that
[00:23:43] play with certain emotions certain
[00:23:45] focus to help to round out
[00:23:48] what you're doing and I think for us
[00:23:51] options are a good thing but it also
[00:23:54] could torture you to death
[00:23:55] so you've got to be careful not to
[00:23:57] look at AI to be a problem solver
[00:24:00] but to possibly be an assistant
[00:24:03] I happen to like AI a lot for helping
[00:24:06] to take a
[00:24:07] email where I want to convey
[00:24:09] something that potentially could be
[00:24:11] challenging to convey an email
[00:24:13] and optimize it for tone content
[00:24:16] professionalism
[00:24:17] you know we've all in our history have
[00:24:18] fired off angry emails and maybe we
[00:24:20] regret it
[00:24:21] I know for me being able to use AI to
[00:24:24] help take something that
[00:24:25] maybe is aggressive and still get the
[00:24:27] point across without
[00:24:28] possibly creating ill will is an
[00:24:31] incredible use of the tool
[00:24:33] yeah absolutely I wish I could use
[00:24:35] it in my personal life right now
[00:24:36] there actually are lots of ways to
[00:24:38] use it but they're just slowly
[00:24:39] kind of coming on board but I think
[00:24:41] we'll probably hear a lot more about
[00:24:42] that this year
[00:24:43] so shifting gears as we wrap up here
[00:24:45] Doug you know the fact that you've had a
[00:24:47] great career in brand building and
[00:24:49] working for as I mentioned earlier
[00:24:50] really prolific brand we first met when
[00:24:52] you were leading the Victoria's Secret
[00:24:53] Pink brand
[00:24:54] over a decade ago after all you've
[00:24:56] accomplished kind of what gave you
[00:24:58] the ambition
[00:24:59] and motivation to do something like
[00:25:01] writing a book putting yourself out
[00:25:02] there going out and doing a media
[00:25:04] tour
[00:25:05] a lot of people think about doing
[00:25:06] things like that but never kind of
[00:25:09] get through to the other side
[00:25:10] so what is it about you and I guess
[00:25:13] either the way you were raised or the
[00:25:14] way your career has formed
[00:25:16] that kind of gives you the motivation
[00:25:18] and confidence to do that that maybe
[00:25:19] we can impart in some of our younger
[00:25:20] listeners here
[00:25:21] so they can kind of put their best
[00:25:22] selves out there yeah
[00:25:24] Matt such a great question I think for
[00:25:26] me to whatever degree of
[00:25:28] accomplishment I may have in my
[00:25:29] career
[00:25:30] I hold equally to the amazing leaders
[00:25:34] that I've worked for
[00:25:35] and frankly the really shitty bosses
[00:25:36] that I worked for and
[00:25:38] I probably can count on one hand
[00:25:42] not using all my fingers the people that
[00:25:44] I've worked for that I admire and that
[00:25:46] I would consider mentors
[00:25:47] I can count on two hands the people
[00:25:49] I've worked for that are just people
[00:25:51] that I
[00:25:51] never wanted to be but learn so much
[00:25:54] from
[00:25:55] if I can help somebody avoid
[00:25:59] mistakes that I've made in my career
[00:26:01] not learning experiences but mistakes
[00:26:03] and they're different a learning
[00:26:04] experience is when you do something
[00:26:05] wrong once a mistake is when you do
[00:26:06] the same thing wrong
[00:26:07] multiple times if I can help if I
[00:26:10] can provide
[00:26:11] a little bit of a clear way to
[00:26:15] possibly frame an idea or solve a
[00:26:18] problem
[00:26:20] and help somebody to help somebody I
[00:26:22] love teaching I love lecturing I've
[00:26:23] been very fortunate
[00:26:25] I've taught everywhere from ivy league
[00:26:26] to my daughter's high school class
[00:26:28] and when you connect with somebody
[00:26:30] it's amazing you know best part of
[00:26:32] my job is leading a high performing
[00:26:34] team
[00:26:34] creating a team high performing making
[00:26:36] them and then
[00:26:37] really helping them grow and learn
[00:26:39] the book for me was an opportunity to
[00:26:42] give a little bit back
[00:26:43] and maybe help if I help somebody
[00:26:46] figure something out
[00:26:47] and avoid some of the pain that I've
[00:26:48] had in my career then I'm doing
[00:26:50] something right
[00:26:51] and I can sleep well tonight knowing
[00:26:52] that you know maybe I've given back
[00:26:54] absolutely well I definitely think you
[00:26:56] have and I you know I really want
[00:26:57] to thank you for taking the time
[00:26:58] to continue to share your learnings
[00:27:00] and wisdom here on the podcast once
[00:27:02] again and
[00:27:03] hopefully we'll have you back yet
[00:27:04] again at some time in the future so
[00:27:05] thanks again
[00:27:06] you guys are doing great work you're
[00:27:08] always at the center of what people
[00:27:09] think and how they think and
[00:27:11] so much of our success collectively is
[00:27:13] in understanding the how not just the
[00:27:14] what so I appreciate the opportunity to
[00:27:16] be out with you today
[00:27:17] absolutely everyone please go and check
[00:27:19] out
[00:27:20] Doug's book Moving Your Brand Out of
[00:27:22] the Fred Zone available on Amazon
[00:27:23] everywhere books are sold be sure to
[00:27:25] check it out so
[00:27:26] on behalf of Suzy and Ida Weeteen
[00:27:27] back again the great Doug Zarkin
[00:27:29] marketer and author for joining us
[00:27:30] once again here today
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